Grandma.. new outlook..

well a couple weeks ago i was talking to my grandma about my SIL and how she is not responsible for her kids. so she says she is 'laxed'... and i say 'irresponsible'.. so after awhile D chimes in and says that he wants to be laxed. and she said oh no you are too responsible. hehehehe made me think that i like the way she thinks. i need to try and be nicer and more positive about things. life is way too short. and we are all have our own points of view of how we want to raise our children. Grandma just made me realize that she sees the same thing but when you say it differently it doesn't 'seem' so bad. also she is my grandma and she can't be mean to anyone...