Happy Halloween!!

Happy Halloween to everyone!! Now I am getting really excited because I have been dying to decorate our place for xmas.. i think i may start this week!! I love christmas...

3's a crowd... so not true!!

I am sure that everyone has heard of Threes a Crowd... well i can honestly say that L, S and I can prove it wrong for the most part. yes sometimes one person may feel left out but majority of the time we all make our effort not to leave anyone out. it is hard to maintain a friendship when there are 3 people involved. But as long as you include everyone and honestly keep communicating it's all good. I am a middle child and grew up that everyone is treated equal. On the other hand L and S are both only child... So they are moreso on the one on one time with each person. I just feel that by doing that you are making the other person feel left out. So I try to keep us together by doing things together. Which seems to be working..

Friends and the opposite sex...

Just a thought but why is it that friends always say they 'value' your opinion.. And when it comes down to it (at least in the other sex department) they don't really listen to you? They ask you what you think and they still are with the person.. Why bother asking me if it comes down to it where you honestly will do whatever you want???? I just rather have you not ask me and let me think that my opinion means something.... but the sad thing is that i feel that my relationship with this friend is not as close now.. then again we aren't usually as close when she does have a boyfriend. but to be honest the last one and current real boyfriend - i don't think too highly of. i mean i am happy for her because she is happy but there is just something i don't like about this guy.. and sometimes the way he treats her and what he says is so uncalled for. but i have to remind myself that it's not my boyfriend. i guess i just feel that she is someone really close to me and someone i respected a lot and that she deserves the best. and when i see her take s$%t from boys it just changes my opinion of her. because she is such a strong minded person.